OnDaGround
05-26-2009, 11:57 AM
My fiance's birthday is coming up on Thursday. We are not going to celebrate it until Friday at her parents. Then Saturday we will probably do our own thing. What she doesn't know that I know that she doesn't know... is that I took off work Friday :D.
The plan is to start out with breakfast Friday morning. Then act as though I'm going into work :cool:. Then decorate her parent's house. The banner, the balloons, the whole nine. I'll get the flowers and all that from a flower shop near our house. Then put those in our house with the petals scattered everywhere (yes I'm the romantic type at times ;)).
Saturday we'll probably head out somewhere nice for dinner and then some other stuff after. I typically make things up as I go. It normally works out better that way. Except for when I dropped to one knee. I couldn't convince her to go anywhere else except a Chinese food place. :( But I was afraid I'd lose it. Turned out to be an excellent thing, but that's for another story.
Basically, I have everything planned out except for presents. I have a couple ideas but to me they are blah. She might like them, but I want something stunning. I have some money to spend but not hundreds and hundreds. I have an account with a jewelery store that is still open from when I got her ring (took a year but thank god I got that paid off... talk about a payment). So in that department I can get a rather nice gift. However, I feel like the diamonds and everything aren't necessarily her thing. She flipped out when she saw her ring (17 diamonds and 2 1/4 carats, I would have too), but that was 2 things factoring into one. I'm not sure she's into the shiny stuff.
We've been together for about 5 years now and it's been an excellent 5 years. We have had some fights... oh yeah... but I don't regret them. We've grown closer because of them. Plus now we know what pushes each others buttons. lol.
Any suggestions would be great. I want to do something outside the box. Something I don't think she'd expect me to get her.
The plan is to start out with breakfast Friday morning. Then act as though I'm going into work :cool:. Then decorate her parent's house. The banner, the balloons, the whole nine. I'll get the flowers and all that from a flower shop near our house. Then put those in our house with the petals scattered everywhere (yes I'm the romantic type at times ;)).
Saturday we'll probably head out somewhere nice for dinner and then some other stuff after. I typically make things up as I go. It normally works out better that way. Except for when I dropped to one knee. I couldn't convince her to go anywhere else except a Chinese food place. :( But I was afraid I'd lose it. Turned out to be an excellent thing, but that's for another story.
Basically, I have everything planned out except for presents. I have a couple ideas but to me they are blah. She might like them, but I want something stunning. I have some money to spend but not hundreds and hundreds. I have an account with a jewelery store that is still open from when I got her ring (took a year but thank god I got that paid off... talk about a payment). So in that department I can get a rather nice gift. However, I feel like the diamonds and everything aren't necessarily her thing. She flipped out when she saw her ring (17 diamonds and 2 1/4 carats, I would have too), but that was 2 things factoring into one. I'm not sure she's into the shiny stuff.
We've been together for about 5 years now and it's been an excellent 5 years. We have had some fights... oh yeah... but I don't regret them. We've grown closer because of them. Plus now we know what pushes each others buttons. lol.
Any suggestions would be great. I want to do something outside the box. Something I don't think she'd expect me to get her.